How Do I Get Over An Emotional Affair?
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—Broken-hearted Wife
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Dear Broken-hearted,
In my book, “How to WIN When Your Mate Cheats,” I underscore that cheating will push lifeless lovers either to mend what they have or end what they had. Your husband’s emotional indiscretion is pushing you to consider that you made your man and family your “world,” but you obscured your own needs from the mix. To attract any man, your weepy victim signature must expand to that of confident victor!
Hubby crossed the line and acted on his fantasies because he apparently felt a void. Not a healthy fix! But your own emotional exit from the marriage must also be assessed. You can certainly love your husband and family, but loving yourself first is necessary to show them how. The right therapist can help you return to the exciting woman your man once craved.
-Dr. Gilda
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