IN LOVE, HOW NICE IS TOO NICE?
Today, a woman asked me whether she’d been too nice to her boyfriend of 2 years; he just dumped her: “I treated his kids well, I catered to him, AND he left me. I don't understand. I thought men like to be treated well.”
How coincidental that this edition of Today.com’s “30-Second Therapist” is titled, “Why Don’t Women Like Nice Guys?” Yes, this time, a MAN asks the same question.
My take on niceness may seem unusual . . . because it questions not the taker, but the giver. WHAT’S YOUR TAKE??