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Thursday, September 22, 2011

ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?


ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

by

DR. GILDA CARLE



Many people make the right love connection, fall hard, and then spend years SABOTAGING their relationship!!  WHY?

Here are just some of the reasons:

--They don’t believe they deserve love.
--They think someone better will come along.
--They don’t know how to love.
--They don’t trust their own feelings.
--They don’t trust the opposite sex.
--They are fearful of getting too close to someone.
--They don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like.
--They still live in the memory of being hurt.
--They choose to listen to others’ opinions.
--They have feelings of inadequacy.
--They have feelings of grandiosity.
--This is the behavior they observed while growing up.
--They are perfectionists, seeking the "perfect" match.  Good luck!!

Do you think you fall into any of those categories?

Check out one woman’s story in my recent Match.com article in Happen Magazine: http://tinyurl.com/4yc8jkr

With all the pain involved with sabotaging behavior, is it worth it?

PLEASE SEND ME YOUR COMMENTS!.

Love, in harmony only,
Dr. Gilda


XXX

DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) is an internationally known psychotherapist, relationship expert, and product spokesperson.  She is Match.com’s “ASK DR. GILDA” advice columnist. She is also known as the Country Music Doctor, with her “Country Cures.”  She is a motivational speaker, professor of psychology & communications, the author of the well-known “Don’t Bet on the Prince!,” a test question on “Jeopardy,” NOW IN ITS SECOND EDITION, 99 Prescriptions for Fidelity, How to Win When Your Mate Cheats, and many more. She was the therapist in HBO's Emmy Award winner, "Telling Nicholas," featured on Oprah, where she guided a family to tell their 7-year-old that his mom died in the World Trade Center bombing.  DR. GILDA is the Love Doc advisor for the off-Broadway show, “Miss Abigail’s Guide to Dating, Mating, & Marriage!”  She is currently developing her own TV show.  Visit www.DrGilda.com and get her Instant Advice!















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